The power of awareness
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- How it helps you to become the strong, capable you you want to be.โฃ
When we avoid being aware of ourselves in the present moment, we will most likely behave to numb ourselves out so we donโt have to feel what the present moment feels like.โฃ
Here are some examples:โฃ
- ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ - โMy back feels a bit soreโ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ - sit down watching TV until late, repeated and reliant sessions with osteopath, telling yourself the story that โIโm so old and creaky, thatโs just how it is now, I canโt expect anything moreโโฃ
- ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ - โafter that birth, I donโt even want to think about โdown thereโโ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ - take a large and impersonal group exercise class, buy products to deal with result of pelvic floor dysfunction, laugh off the symptoms you have at every opportunity โoh my PF is shot to pieces, pissed myself laughing has become a real thing!โโฃ
- ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ - โfriend asks you to join her for a beginners tennis class - you are scared of this, starting running again hurt and you stopped as a resultโ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ - say no, donโt join anything new because it may hurt, stick with what you know, the same class onlyโฃโฃ
๐ช๐ก๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐?โฃ
- We ruminate on whatโs happened before and apply that to nowโฃ
- We catastrophize about the futureโฃ
- By doing this we are less flexible with our approach to any situation and less able to respond helpfullyโฃ
- We avoid the trigger that may feel threatening โฃ
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Thank your mind for looking out for youโฃ
Feel the ground beneath your feet & the chair (or other surface) touching your bodyโฃ
Know that you are breathing in and outโฃ
Take your thoughts along with you into whatever newness aligns with your values.โฃ
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Do you want to develop your mental resiliency as you get stronger in your body?โฃ
In every online programme I develop, we take a look at this work to support you in mind & body so you can live a rich, full and meaningful life.โฃ
Find out more about my new โConnect Your Coreโ course on the link in my bio ๐๐ผ